Find a way!

Observation: Last time you saw your parents was six months ago. For years you live far from them and you meet only once or twice a year. But you still talk. You talk regularly. You exchange messages by e-mail and Facebook, you talk on Skype and phone. You see the dear faces thanks to webcams. You talk about the important things. The dreams, the plans, the problems, the achievements, the moods, the thoughts, the people, the places, the things. But eventually you start to feel that something is not right. Some days you feel great after talking to your family. Other days you don't. But you love your family and you think about what you can do. You decide not to talk about the sad and instead focus on the cheerful. You begin to find brighter sides to everyday things, so that you can share them with your family and cheer them up. You try harder to make them proud. And it helps, but only for a little while. The thought that something is not right comes back sooner or later. And this happens between old friends, too.

Thought: It does not feel right, because you are not meant to live like this with your closest people. Your closest people are the ones who you love most and who love you. They are the people with whom you want to share your life. It is because you can share your life with them, living is enjoyable! But when you live apart, you cannot do anything together really, only virtually. You cannot sit together, you cannot eat together, you cannot walk together, you cannot watch together, you cannot build together, you cannot play together, and you cannot touch each other. Staying in touch is not a complete substitute and cannot prevent you from growing apart. The only solution is to bend the world in such a way, that you can be closest to your closest people.